Question:
I have now been in three groups and as time has gone on find myself attracted to one of the female members. I don't seem to be able to stop the process and of course things get out of hand. Can you help?Answer:
It is easy for those without a strong libido to laugh at this sincere question. But I have known it to cause mayhem in a group and in one case I can recall it ending a very useful transforming ladder.
The Fourth Way is the Way of the Sly Man. And the Sly Man solution is that of the mean Magician who hypnotised his sheep to keep them from straying.
Here is the solution. Is there a woman whom nature would not let you fancy? Yes - your sister. OK, so the answer is to make any woman you cannot ordinarily resist into a 'sister'. How do you do this?
There is an old ritual which can help you hypnotise yourself to think this woman is a sister. Start by speaking to her with complete sincerity. Asking if you can make her a sister. She is most likely to say 'yes' - if you explain the reason.
In private you stand opposite the woman, close enough to touch her shoulder without leaning forward. Take her right hand and place it on your head cupping your left ear - place your left hand on top of hers. Ask her to take your right hand in her left hand and lift it up to her left breast. In this posture you say 'Welcome to my heart sister' and after that she says 'Welcome to my heart brother'. That is the end of the ceremony which you should finish with a chaste embrace. You will be surprised how this works!
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